yoh but family can be parasites, i went to visit in Soweto yoh you would swear I went Somali.I wen there loaded and I came back with my pockets empty,the only thing that was left were the few coins i saved for the taxi fare.If one is not asking you to buy them a ciggarete,then the other wants you to buy them a 1.25litres of cooldrink,of which you are not even able to pamper yourself with one. But after all family is family,if they do not leave your pockets hanging,who will? Love_Live_Laugh