RED LIPS, Yes please....................
red lips are the in thing. doesnt matter your complexion hey, they just come through and demand attention. A lot of fashhionistas have made red lips their trademark and theres just no missing them. Rita Ora (above) burst into the Music Scene with her luscious red lips,which suit her so much.


Although people have followed in this trend, some tend to over do it, as they do not always get it right because they do not wear the right shade of red.........but who cares? red lips are in and people should just embrace it and make their own bold statements!

Eish............ its back 2 school already

When I finished my exams I thought I had a lot of time to chill at home.............. Nah..I was wrong. Within a blink of an eye its back to school, just when I was enjoying my holiday it dawned on me that I have to go back to the white walls of MGI. How I'd give anything to finish and never set my foot back in that place *Sigh* Anyway I'm looking forward to finishing this year off and can't wait to go on that 3month holiday, so I can Love more but infact live and laugh................. X0x0

Practicals are way cooler than theory

The way lectures go on, you'd think Journalism is a bore. All those things they make out to look extremely hard are actually fun and motivating. I know this because I had a privilege of being an intern at one of the biggest publications in South Africa *Daily Sun*. Because of the Bunch of Theory I learned at school I thought that my intern was gonna be extremely badzn but it wasn't, it was a great working environment people are friendly er'thang was just Fabulous. Lecturers shouldn't forget to highlight the positive in the courses they teach us, coz they not as serious and boring as they make them to be, On that Tip its happiness we Love_Live and Laugh

2 Full Years!

Today marks the second year that me and my boyfriend have been together, it has been such an emotional roller coaster lately, but the focus is purely on what we've achieved so far as a couple. I know I rant on this blog when I'm pissed and hurt by him, but I also think its only fair I thank him for the good he has contributed in my life. Hooking up with him still feels like yesterday it was the days of the World Cup Hype, yep it has been that long. During this period I've learnt a lot, to think of somebody else, to cry and talk about stuff that bother me, to get into trouble with the parents, teamwork,party hard,pray and love unconditionally, it has been a great journey one which I wish never ends, I can't say I wouldn't change anything, there are coupl'a things I'd erase, but then that would be tempering with the real memories behind this love story. I love my BF and what ever BullS**t we go thru we's still gonna keep going! We Love_Live_Laugh

Women Abuse

This is one thing I thought I would never encounter, well at least not now, but YES It happened to me and it is the worst experience ever! I admit I did some really F'd up things,I lied and cheated in My ex boyfriend, but part of me still insists that it comes with being 21 and exploring, guess he didn't see it that way. Now what really puzzles me is that he was against me breaking up with him, I mean I asked that he let me go so that we can both go our separate ways but,No he didn't wanna hear it. Now when I decide that I really wanna break up with him he beats me up.........huh? Why though? I mean how hard is it to let go of someone who hurts u? Now he says Y am I blaming him 4 hitting me, wow guess he's never heard of the saying 2 wrongs don't make a right, fact is he hit a woman,if it was revenge that he was after he's done good coz I'm scard *sp for life, anyway life goes on wqe continue living, and loving and most of all we shall laugh coz that shit works

Women Abuse

This is one thing I thought I would never encounter, well at least not now, but YES It happened to me and it is the worst experience ever! I admit I did some really F'd up things,I lied and cheated in My ex boyfriend, but part of me still insists that it comes with being 21 and exploring, guess he didn't see it that way. Now what really puzzles me is that he was against me breaking up with him, I mean I asked that he let me go so that we can both go our separate ways but,No he didn't wanna hear it. Now when I decide that I really wanna break up with him he beats me up.........huh? Why though? I mean how hard is it to let go of someone who hurts u? Now he says Y am I blaming him 4 hitting me, wow guess he's never heard of the saying 2 wrongs don't make a right, fact is he hit a woman,if it was revenge that he was after he's done good coz I'm scard *sp for life, anyway life goes on wqe continue living, and loving and most of all we shall laugh coz that shit works

what/who is a girl"s bestie?

So............? What or who is a girl's best friend? Diamonds,designer clothes or a friend that she's know for a long time? To some degree that might be the case but, honestly in my opinion I think a girl's best friend is actually her self, I mean think about it,diamonds could snatched from you by some hungry thug around the corner, as for clothes that s**t has a certain time frame and when the time is up it goes out of fashion, but If u rely on yourself you are guaranteed happiness, why? Because you know how to love yourself, enjoy your own company and you sure as hell won't stab yourself in the back! If you're a girl still trying to figure this out goodluck, in the meantime, make reference to Beyonce Knowles' *me,myself and I* great song to make one realise that it is after all about her! Love_Live and don't forget to Laugh

Love is Tricky

check the background, i know right.................. lol the decoration was whack, but it was a memorable day,I was turning the big 21 yes it ia big deal for some of us. if I could I would rewind the 24th of March 2012, even though some of you guys didn't pitch its alright i will live, these are the days I live for where and when my achievements are recognised reaching 21 with a peferct score is hella hard ask me I know, so even if the decorations were a bit chaotic and damn straight weird i still had the time of my life this is to happy living and all the laughter that comes with it.

RELATIONSHIP BLUES

Had the crappiest weekend, first Mr me finds out I got feelings for another cat,
he flips drags me like a dog and kidnaps me for like six hours, tells me crap and calls me names, wow I can't get over that but I can only try, I'm depressed so me does not match the name of this blog, but forgiveness goes a long way hope I get thru this! Xoxo

RELATIONSHIP BLUES

hood love

I love my hood though, yes its dusty,potholes, sewage and all but it is a damn good place to be. U commit crime we stone u, u beat your wife we beat u lol,but if u celebrating or having a party we are ALL there, funeral we fill the busses and all the other cars because we is Fam, no English around its Tsotsi taal all the way, and if u have money drinks are on u till your BROKE, we stay happpy,:-)

hood love

yoh but family can be parasites, i went to visit in Soweto yoh you would swear I went Somali.I wen there loaded and I came back with my pockets empty,the only thing that was left were the few coins i saved for the taxi fare.If one is not asking you to buy them a ciggarete,then the other wants you to buy them a 1.25litres of cooldrink,of which you are not even able to pamper yourself with one. But after all family is family,if they do not leave your pockets hanging,who will? Love_Live_Laugh

how to avoid family who are parasites

what is it about children that makes them so adorable?

I dont have children of my own but i would like to have some one day! Ever noticed how magical it is when their tiny hand(s) fit just your finger, wow that one there is amazing. lol ever noticed how again you look so stupid when you're pulling the little voice and wierd facial expressions? even the most serious people tend to look like complete morons when they do that.

And what about that exciting feeling you get when they attempt to call you by your name (even if the pronounciation is whack) you can't help but fall more deeply inlove with them. What about them trying to sing along to certain songs? hhmmmmmm don't lie for a moment then, that song becomes your favourite for that time because you know that it is special since that kid sings along to it. Or perhaps the attitude they pull for you, especially when you least expect it, you teach them some hadcore moves and you become shocked when they pull it for you.

A house that has a little child is never dull, these small people surprise us everyday, through the magical growth they go through, their voices are piercing but in a very sweet and melodic way, we love kids don't we? ncooooooh. HAPPY LIVING GUYS!

can we talk skin colour?

ok girls can we have a moment of silence for skin colours? most people think that light skinned chicks are hot, but are they really?................................ well yes and NO! but there is no disputing the fact that when you are light skinned people are definitely gonna think you're the ish, which is why in most cases dark skinned chicks are under rated (like myself,pictured aboved) and overlooked just because people can't look past my dark skin. I've learned to be comfortable in my skin, so girls should really quit wasting too much money on face creams that will only ruin their skin, embrace your skin colour BLACK girl,not taking cheap shots at light skinned girls but yall b*****s know that thanks to your complection you can claim the "I'm beatiful" phrase and act like it applies to you...........when it actually doesn't LOL, anyway it's all LOVE yellow bones I still love U but my dark b*****s are close to my heart.. do not forget to Love_Live and Laugh, even if you laugh at yourself ciao

HIV/AIDS can most certainly ruin one's life
Though this blog site is all about happiness there is no denying that we sorrow or misfortune does occur. This weekend a very good friend of mine opened up to me about his HIV status. Judging by the lifestyle he lived, one would expect me to not be astonished at all...........but I was, I mean as much as people act reckless sometimes when they tell you they are HIV positive you really can not start judging them. My friend was really surprised that I did not judge him,but how could I? when my half my family is infected,my own father died of Aids, and what I learned from that experience is to give people who are infected that extra special support and love. So my friends with this blog page I just wanna make sure that I spread the love, and can we not stop laughing while we are living infected or not, sometime we just have to embrace these situations!

This blog page is basically a platform where u can laugh and just forget about your worries, every week we will take everything u find negative in your life and turn it into a positive and just laugh about it, we'll teach each other how to love and live, by the way I'm Nontokozo thanks for checking out my blog look out for tips of having a great day even when things don't seem to go your way,